Ankles

Last Friday, my 14 year old son twisted his ankle at a morning track practice. He came home and stayed in bed, propping his ankle up most of the day.
Late afternoon, I realized we hadn't prayed for healing, which we normally do if someone is sick or injured.
We prayed that Jesus would make Himself real to my son and rock him, those exact words. Nothing fancy, nothing dramatic.
At first my son said he had some relief so we prayed again. This time he moved his ankle around, it made a loud pop. He laughed, got up, and ran out of the room!

It occurred to me that God wants people to be able to do what they enjoy.
So, painting, sports, writing, etc. Satan wants to keep us from doing things were gifted to do and things we enjoy. We should do these things, giving glory to God.

My son loves sports. Satan would love to keep him from performing. God is greater, though.

I love to write. I struggle with debilitating headaches and can't think when I feel like this.
God has taken the headache away sometimes but they return at a later time.
This has no relevance whether God loves me or not. I don't know why sometimes He takes the headaches away and other times He doesn't. When He doesn't, I take a prescription medicine and have not guilt about it.

Why does He heal some and not others? I don't know. I do know Jesus healed all that came to Him. I believe this is still the nature of God today. We just aren't seeing it...yet.

Maybe tomorrow.

Toxic moms

I'm a mom. I'm friends with a lot of great mom's. Most of the mom's I know are sincere and fair and want the best not only for their children but for their children's friends.

Then, you have a very small number of mother's that are only concerned about their children. The one's that have little empathy or understanding concerning problems or issues their kid's friends may be having.
The worst part about these mom's is they eliminate anyone they see as a problem, they demonize them to their family, friends and anyone who will listen. Then they post on Facebook about love, forgiveness, acceptance.

No child is all bad or all good. Completely eliminating a friend from your child's life to make it easier for them doesn't teach the root of friendship. We're supposed to lay our lives down for people. Love them.
I'm not talking about eliminating because of a bad influence like drinking or drugs. Just deciding they are done with these people. Inviting all the girls in the class over but leaving one out. One day best friends and the next basically dead to them.

This is not how we behave as Christians. We work through things. We invite in the mess.

It's easy to think or actually eliminate people from your life until it's your child that this happens.

Mom's wield a lot of power. The power to include. The power to exclude.

Women Pastors

Women are called to be pastors.

I have no doubt about this statement. I've wanted to write, speak, live that sentence out for a while now.

How do I know this?

1. 1 Samuel 16:7 - But the Lord said to Samuel, "Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.

God is not looking for anatomy. He's looking for willing hearts. Pinholing who should or should not is not our business, it's His. Not every man is called to be a pastor, nor every woman. God does the calling and annointing.

2. In the Garden of Eden, there was a curse laid on humanity. Simply, when Jesus came, died and was resurrected, the curse was gone. We are under a new covenant. The Holy Spirit changed us on the inside and took care of the inequities.

3. The letters that discuss what should or should not be done inside the church are inadequate evidence. These are letters, which means, to judge what was being addressed requires the corresponding letters. To base theology on this alone is to not safe, or good, for anyone. 

4. Jesus is not limited to the body God gave Him here on Earth. He is more than a man.
Jesus could have come to Earth as anything, a donkey, a cat, a camel. The fact he came clothe in a man's body means very little. Except he did experience humanity as a human, not solely as a man, but as a person. 

For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the LORD.

Isaiah 55:8

He is a person but it's not the anatomy that defines Him. He's more, bigger, greater than we can imagine. He's more than we saw here on Earth. He is the Word. 

There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.

Galatians 3:28

For there is no distinction between Jew and Greek; for the same Lord is Lord of all, bestowing his riches on all who call on him.

Romans 10:12

5. The body of Christ is about unity and partnership. It's about all the parts doing their part. If someone is called to something and they are not allowed to contribute then the body is broken. 

Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.

Ephesians 4:15-16

The church will never function healthily if some of the body is not allowed to serve in how they're called. 

If women that are called to be pastors are not allowed to serve, they will fill that void in the world somehow. New age, false religions, witch craft will prevail. The corporate ladder and overemphasis on taking care of the family, which are both good, is not a substitute for how God calls someone.

Why does this matter? It does and doesn't. Most of the time I'm content with what's going on in churches and I say very little. My residence is in heaven. That is what matters. 

But today, today it's important. 

I only do what my Father does and say what my Father says. Today He says it's important. And I say, OK. 

Are there subjects greater than this. Yes. Believing He is for us, trusting in Him, going deeper in my relationship with God, getting refueled with the Holy Spirit, assisting God in getting souls to heaven. All of these things trump who is in what position on Earth. 

But for 10 minutes, this is important. For someone, somewhere who is discouraged. 

And the message will get to them so they can pick their heads up and keep moving. They are not alone.